'So what can I do to get KC on next meeting?' - that question is repeating in many FR, e-mails, PM, etc. I decided to write about that topic some articles. firstly I have 3 important tips, precisely - discussion about mistakes that I met on most in questions asked on forum or PM.
1. Basic fault, that do most of men - want to end their meeting with girls by a kc. Fault, fault FAULT! Kiss-close should be during the meeting, not only at the ending. Most of men wait until the end of date to kiss a girl. [a small digression: OK, I have already said that I do not like that word, but how many times you can repeat the "meeting" - so "date" is here only as a substitute for the language user's recall, gentlemen, today's women are unlikely to use the term "dating", many of them reacts on it like on allergy. End of digression :) ] It looks like in some desperation act in the last moment you try to kiss her. You've watched too much American films, where first kiss follows in the las minute of the meeting. Girl, you meet with watched that films too, nay - she knows that from her own experience - not once and not twice she met guys, who wanna only sleep with her(that's the way of AFC behavior, who have no idea about pua) or even provoke her, negating her, but have not strong enough inner game, to get closer to her and get a kc, although they sent signals indicating that they want it.(that's the way of AFC, who read a little about PUA and think they already are PUA :) ) And that girl, if she is interested in you, during meeting thinks "will he dare or not dare?". You escort her home, sayin' goodbye to her and she already knows "yes, now you'll probably want to kiss me... standard...boooooring. What the hell am I doing here with this guy??" OK, maybe I exaggerate a bit, it's not 100% rule, cos' I met women with a very "traditional" attitude on this matter (formed probably by these American films), who expect kiss just now, at the end, cos it seems to be so "romantic". But: don't forget, most women likes unpredictability- exactly this is romantic to them. If you kiss her until date ends, you'll be as everyone else. If you detect right moment and do it earlier, just at that moment, when she want it the most, you'll be in her eyes much more impressive.
2. Next mistake: guy goes to the date with inner game: "I need to have KC today! - I need to have everything refined, that made it happen" And again: Fault, fault, FAULT! Did you know, when the best KC works, often even initiated by a girl? Then, when you DON'T think about it, when you're not focused on KC. Instead of creating, how to kiss her, focus on good entertainment and interesting conversation, let yourself be carried away by emotions and fun. Only in that situation you'll get natural, spontaneous kiss-close, that is so, what women wants.
3: Don't focus on time, focus on emotions - "time is a relative term", as said a professor of physics with a very specific haircut :D when you get KC- it's irrelevant, important thing is THIS moment, where she and you want it. I make sometimes KC tens seconds after meeting a woman.(Fast direct, which need a very strong frame and a sense of the situation, acquired through experience, I would not recommend a beginner PUA - "do not try this at home" ;) ), sometimes until third meeting(long enough tension built, the state of expectations, push&pull, which makes it an emotional roller coaster) - it all depends on your situation.
1. Basic fault, that do most of men - want to end their meeting with girls by a kc. Fault, fault FAULT! Kiss-close should be during the meeting, not only at the ending. Most of men wait until the end of date to kiss a girl. [a small digression: OK, I have already said that I do not like that word, but how many times you can repeat the "meeting" - so "date" is here only as a substitute for the language user's recall, gentlemen, today's women are unlikely to use the term "dating", many of them reacts on it like on allergy. End of digression :) ] It looks like in some desperation act in the last moment you try to kiss her. You've watched too much American films, where first kiss follows in the las minute of the meeting. Girl, you meet with watched that films too, nay - she knows that from her own experience - not once and not twice she met guys, who wanna only sleep with her(that's the way of AFC behavior, who have no idea about pua) or even provoke her, negating her, but have not strong enough inner game, to get closer to her and get a kc, although they sent signals indicating that they want it.(that's the way of AFC, who read a little about PUA and think they already are PUA :) ) And that girl, if she is interested in you, during meeting thinks "will he dare or not dare?". You escort her home, sayin' goodbye to her and she already knows "yes, now you'll probably want to kiss me... standard...boooooring. What the hell am I doing here with this guy??" OK, maybe I exaggerate a bit, it's not 100% rule, cos' I met women with a very "traditional" attitude on this matter (formed probably by these American films), who expect kiss just now, at the end, cos it seems to be so "romantic". But: don't forget, most women likes unpredictability- exactly this is romantic to them. If you kiss her until date ends, you'll be as everyone else. If you detect right moment and do it earlier, just at that moment, when she want it the most, you'll be in her eyes much more impressive.
2. Next mistake: guy goes to the date with inner game: "I need to have KC today! - I need to have everything refined, that made it happen" And again: Fault, fault, FAULT! Did you know, when the best KC works, often even initiated by a girl? Then, when you DON'T think about it, when you're not focused on KC. Instead of creating, how to kiss her, focus on good entertainment and interesting conversation, let yourself be carried away by emotions and fun. Only in that situation you'll get natural, spontaneous kiss-close, that is so, what women wants.
3: Don't focus on time, focus on emotions - "time is a relative term", as said a professor of physics with a very specific haircut :D when you get KC- it's irrelevant, important thing is THIS moment, where she and you want it. I make sometimes KC tens seconds after meeting a woman.(Fast direct, which need a very strong frame and a sense of the situation, acquired through experience, I would not recommend a beginner PUA - "do not try this at home" ;) ), sometimes until third meeting(long enough tension built, the state of expectations, push&pull, which makes it an emotional roller coaster) - it all depends on your situation.
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Yours,
Elvis
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